Random Tips & Tricks

Language Ladder
When it comes to those first dozen words, research says that simply practicing doesn't make speaking perfect.Toddlers will be able to get the words out when the speech centers of the brain mature.But vocabulary comprehension grows very quickly. Don't judge a toddler's progress with language by her ability to speak, because the amount kiddos actually understand is a much better predictor of later language ability. Just keep on talking!

Encouraging Words
>>I like the way you handled that!
>>I appreciate what you did.
>>You're really improving!
>>You'll figure a way to do it better next time.
>>I trust you to be responsible.
>>It's okay to make mistakes.We all do.
>>I'm proud of you for trying.


CARRY ME!
If your child is like mine was,they always wanted to be carried.As they get bigger it, of course, gets harder to hold them very long.When a child's carried they:
>>get a better view.
>>they love being close to you.
>>they feel more secure in your arms.
>>if they are at your level, they're determined they have your attention.
I picked up my kids for a short hug, kiss, and cuddle when needed.Sometimes I can carry them.But when I'm too tired I just say No,I can't right now.Offer a hand or a hug.


Hush Little Baby
Children thrive on routine.Try to a nightly ritual to ease in slumber.
Tub Time.Everyone sleeps better after a nice bath or shower.
JammiesGet those comfy pjs on.Be sure to change as soon as you get up.In my house we get dressed after breakfast.

Snack TimeServe a light snack before bed.Kids sleep better when their tummies are full.
Cavity MonstersDon't forget to brush those teeth!
RelaxWatch tv.Read a book.Rest with your child at least 30 minutes before winding down.



Kiddy Clutter
Toddler's play is messy.Toys are a vital part in a child's life,but dang, sometimes you wish they'd all disapear.Get your child involved in cleaning up.It might be slower,but you don't want to be picking up after them for 18 more years.
>>Designate a play space.I have a whole room in my house as the play room.I know this may not be achievable for some.Maybe you can set up a space in the family room.At first this will mean nothing to your toddler.Toys will still be dragged and left in every space imaginable.But with time and explanation,they will grasp the concept.
>>Have a space for everything.Large colored baskets on shelves work with me.Assigning different colors helps with clean up.
>>Set up a regular clean up time.I set a timer before I cook dinner and we have to beat the clock.Yes, you will probably do most of the work.But the purpose is to solely get your child involved.



Everyone Cries
Start at an early age to explain about other's feelings.Even though they might not understand now,it will help in the future.When a toddler hits someone, dont just say no hitting!, go further and say that oww it hurts when you do that.When they do something you're proud of tell them how nice it was of them.Teaching feelings from the start will get your child on the right path to making friends.



Seperation
The hardest part of leaving your child with a babysitter is saying goodbye.Try to make it easier with these tips.
>>Get ready beforehand and try to spend some one on one time together.If your child is left to play by himself while your getting ready, he may feel neglected.Then when your gone he may have feelings of abandonment.Try for at least fifteen minutes alone.
>>Get them busy before your gone.Get them involved in a fun activity so parting won't be as hard.
>>Keep your farewell as casual as possible.Briefly explain your leaving.Tell them you'll be back soon.Promise an activity together upon your return.



Safety Warning
Some adventurous toddlers manage to climb out of their crimb before their second birthday comes around.Make sure you have lowered the mattress to its lowest position.

What's That?
Chronic ear infections,allergies,and upper respiratory infections all interfere with hearing.They're the most common reason behind speech delays and poor pronunciation.



Pacifier::Prescribed
Did you know that using a pacifier when your baby goes to sleep reduces the risk of SIDS? It greatly outweighs any risk involved with the dreaded binky.



Little Explorer
Try to accomodate your toddler's need to explore.Sometimes you might want to put a stop to their exploration when it gets too messy or dangerous.It's important to remember your house might not be as tidy during this trying time.



Brain Food
Did you know that the brains of children who don't play much are about 20-30% smaller than normal?And what toddlers learn through poking and proding,licking and chewing actually becomes part of the brain itself?



Road to Independance
When freedom becomes to overwhelming, toddlers may retreat to babyhood.If your child is too heavy to carry, offer a hand to hold.After outings, offer some extra TLC.And next time you go on an outing, don't forget that stroller! ;)



Diaper Derby
1.Never,ever leave a child on any high surface used as a changing table.Falls are inevidiable.
2.Dress you baby comfortably.Use what's right for you.It's best not to overdress or underdress them either.Dress the child in what's comfortable for you.
3.Pat your baby dry after a bath.Use lotion and powder to reduce friction with their clothes.

Can I see your ID?
Don't sign the back of a credit card.Instead write ask to see ID.This helps to prevent others from using your card.

Man's Best Friend
Just ten minutes with your furry friends can lower your blood pressure.Pet Owners report less health problems than those without.